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Words mean something

Why is it that when you’re driving and looking for an address, you turn down the volume on the radio? Ever stopped to think about it? You can close your eyes, but you can’t close your ears.

Sound is invasive, intrusive and irresistible. You hear and retain information even when you’re not officially listening.

One of the greatest myths is that “we remember more of what we see than what we hear.” In fact, quite the opposite is true. Our creator endowed us with some terrific gifts, one of the greatest is the ability to attach meaning to the sounds we hear; Sounds that shape us, inspire us, guide us, and convict us.

So while the traditions of Christmas keep us focused on presents and packages, don’t forget the stories, the laughter, the words that unwrap the wonder and joy of the season. “Merry Christmas” is more than an endangered cliche’, it’s a prayer of hope extended for each of us.

Songs that bring out the best in you

Adventure is a state of mind…a lifestyle. It comes in a variety of packages and is painted with a host of emotions. Thus, my Adventure Playlist, my collection of adventure songs, is eclectic and dramatic and totally based on the adventure in my mind.

I uploaded this as an iTunes iMix (Adventure Songs), but eleven songs seem to be unavailable on iTunes. In the meantime, here it is for your comment.

Notice there is no priority order to this 40 song playlist; the intention is to share my musical experience, not a top-40 adventure list. So, join me and dream, travel, discover, explore, and claim God’s best for life.

Ron’s Adventure Playlist:

  • Sloop John B– The Beach Boys
  • Place In This World– Michael W. Smith
  • On the Road Again– Willie Nelson
  • With Imagination– Harry Connick Jr.
  • Runnin’ Down a Dream– Tom Petty
  • Spirit in the Sky– Norman Greenbaum
  • Growing Older But Not Up– Jimmy Buffett
  • I Still Haven’t Found What I’m Looking For– U2
  • A Horse With No Name– America
  • Show Me the Way– Styx
  • Calypso– John Denver
  • Cool Change– Little River Band
  • Anyway– Martina McBride
  • Ventura Highway– America
  • The River of Dreams– Billy Joel
  • I’ve Been Everywhere– Johnny Cash
  • What Faith Can Do– Kutless
  • Where The Streets Have No Name– U2
  • Leaving On A Jet Plane– John Denver
  • Long Long Journey– Enya
  • Let the River Run– Carly Simon
  • When God Made Me– Neil Young
  • Jet Airliner– The Steve Miller Band
  • Beautiful Noise– Neil Diamond
  • Route 66– Nat King Cole
  • This Land Is Your Land– Peter, Paul And Mary
  • Dreams– Stevie Nicks with Deep Dish
  • I Can See Clearly Now– Johnny Nash
  • El Condor Pasa (If I Could)– Simon & Garfunkel
  • Dreams– The Cranberries
  • Take It to the Limit– Eagles
  • Come Sail Away– Styx
  • King of the Road– Roger Miller
  • Fly Like An Eagle– The Steve Miller Band
  • Rocky Mountain High– John Denver
  • Take Me Home Country Roads– John Denver
  • Sail Away– Pure Moods
  • The River Sings– Enya
  • Africa– Toto
  • Ghost Riders in the Sky– Johnny Cash

GamePlan was adjusted

Until his retirement, Gene Stallings coached some of the most famous football teams in America. For years he mentored and inspired young men to be more than they thought they could be.

Each week in the fall he watched film and developed the game plan for the next week. Then on game day his team worked the plan. However, Coach discovered early in his career that even the best game plans have to be adjusted. In short, surprises are part of the game.

Coach may have worked with young men, but he lived with women. His wife and daughters loved the game, but every coach longs for a son. It’s a guy thing.

When Gene’s son Johnny was born, the longing was reality. He was born John Mark and grew up loved by millions, but after only forty-six years Johnny died a little over two years ago. He lived full-speed. He came into the this world a surprise and left it a hero.

Johnny was born with Down’s syndrome. Johnny was different and Coach’s game plan had to be adjusted.

The doctors told the family that Johnny would probably not live a full life and Gene was encouraged to place Johnny in a home for retarded children. After all, that would be the easiest thing to do.

It was not to be. Johnny came home with his family and he never left.
“We made a decision when we brought him home that he would be part of the family. We go to church, we bring him. We go to the country club, we bring him. We decided we weren’t going to hide him,” Gene said.

Over the years Johnny and his dad became rather famous. There series of commercials for the United Way inspired millions. The surprise grew up loved and accepted and end for many he died an unexpected hero.

The game plan was adjusted and we all won.

Born with adventure in his heart

At 7 a.m. on Friday, December 4, 1987, Rocco borrowed his mother’s station wagon, picked up his baby sister and took off down Midland Avenue in Port Chester, New York. Two-and-a-half miles from home, Rocco was pulled over by a local policeman. The car had violated no laws; it was just that the policeman couldn’t see any driver. When the officer walked up he spotted Rocco clad in pajamas, and his sister, clad only in a pajama top.

Rocco was five. His mother was home sick, his father was at work, and Rocco needed a new coloring book. His granddad had taught Rocco to drive, and he knew the way to the store, so off they went.

The officer told Rocco his mommy would have to come get him, but the kid replied, “My mommy can’t come here. I have the only car. I can drive. I’ll go get her!”

Do you know Rocco? i want to know what he is into now. I bet boredom is not on his agenda.

Wow, Dad, do it again!

When James Sheehy was writing for Newsweek magazine he told of watching his son demonstrate skateboarding skills. A burst of youthful, risky, craziness came over him and he began to imagine himself zipping around on that skateboard.

“Yo! Dad!” his son called. “Come on—it’s fun. You just get on it and go.”

After a moment of courage-gathering Sheehy agreed and with the help of his son he stood up on the board.

“Now!” his son said, “make it move.”

Sheehy kept one foot on the board and pushed with the other until he got to the downhill slope of the driveway. The rest is a blur. The board shot out from under him, and he went flying through the air, landing with his full weight on the side of one foot.

“Wow, Dad! That was radical. Do it again.”

On the way to the hospital his son retold every detail of the flying skate board ride. He told everyone in the emergency room how neat it was.

The doctor walked up, took one look at the foot and responded rather critically, “Riding a skateboard at your age…” But, it was an adventure!

We thought it would be a sailing vacation

Some discoveries happen on the fly, just when they’re needed.

A year ago 8 of us took on a sailing adventure that rocked our world. It was planned as a vacation with good friends, but it ended up to be a tad bit more. Our task was to move the catamaran, “Knot on Call,” from Tortola, BVI to it’s new home in Fort Lauderdale, Florida. We anticipated the only really challenging part of the trip would be the two-day, three-night sail from San Juan, Puerto Rico to the Turks and Caicos Islands just south of the Bahamas; we were wrong.

When we left San Juan the weather was just as anticipated, ENE winds at 8-12 knots. But that was about to change dramatically. Three days later our 42 ft catamaran was being slammed by 30 knot winds and 20 ft swells. Although the hurricane was hundreds of miles away, we got the left-overs.

By the time we arrived at a safe harbor, we had a tear in the mainsail, a broken boom line, and a fuel pump and filter that refused to function. 

Once our first set of surprises were fixed, we discovered a rip in the jib; it had to be sewn.

Days and nights burled and sleep was rare. When we finally arrived in Fort Lauderdale, we had spent eight nights sailing all night, splitting shifts at the helm.

By the way, If you have to, you can patch a mainsail with duck tape. You can eat Barracuda, it tastes a little like chicken. And, you can catch fish using a driftwood stick as bait. We learned that sometimes freighter captains don’t see sailboats, U.S. Navel operations will let you know when you get too close, and you can eat every meal standing, while getting hammered. Although there were a few tense times, we discovered that when you share places in a radical story it has a ripple affect on friendships–it strengthens them.

People have asked, “Did you have fun?”

I wouldn’t call it fun, but it WAS an adventure. We sailed 1150 miles and have weathered face-lines to prove it. Unexpected challenges force adventurists to be creative and innovative. Are you ready?

In case you were wondering, 

”Knot on Call” survived and is now resting in Fort Lauderdale.

Here be Dragons

In 1974, an adventurous 79-year-old Swiss Baron and a handful of fellow travelers began their hike up the mountain inside what is now known as Komodo National Park on Indonesia’s Komodo Island. The hike proved a bit more strenuous than the Baron expected, he grew winded and his knee was sore and his legs needed rest, so he sat down under a tree. After a bit, he  urged his friends to go on to the top without him. “I’ll see you at the top in a bit.”

But he never made it to the top. No one ever saw him again. After an extend search they found his twisted eyeglasses and his Hasselblad camera, but the Swiss adventurer had vanished.

The truth was unthinkable, he had been eaten by a Dragon, one of the thousands on this Island, a Komodo Dragon. These wrinkled-skinned throwbacks to the prehistoric times can grow to 10ft in length and weigh as much as 300lbs (that’s their weight before dinner).

Today there is a memorial for the Baron on the Island, reminding visitors not to camp on the ground and not to take these mini-monsters for granted.

Dragons can be very unpredictable.

Although the Komodo Dragon is unique to this Island. There are other dragons that appear now and then. These dragons eat us alive and rob us of wonder. Adventurists around the world know them. They are  stored in personal reserves, emerging unpredictably out of our deepest hidden fears. They keep us in the dark and cancel our ability to wonder, regardless of how safe our wandering.

I used to think the worst of these private reserve dragon’s was the “fear of failure,” but now I think the “fear of success” is just as unpredictable and destructive.

The Baron was vulnerable and ambushed, he lost the battle and was consumed.

I have other plans for my dragons. I don’t let them grow bigger than Geckos. And, I am learning how to shrink them and slay them.

That story is still being written in ongoing chapters of my adventure embedded in a mystery.

What’s happened to your dragons?

The Bucket List for real people

Remember The Bucket List? It’s a dialogue-intensive movie about two dying men on a three-month adventure, a journey that transforms a bully into a buddy. The two old men: pompous, arrogant, corporate billionaire Edward Cole and pensive, philosophical, car mechanic Carter Chambers are almost unbearably different. The only thing they have in common is their terminal illnesses.

While sharing a hospital room, they begin making a list of all the things they’d like to do before they kick the bucket–It’s their bucket list. What began as a topic of conversation, became a timely to do list. When they were released to die, they took off, determined to complete as many items on the list as time permitted.

In the end not everything was completed, but Ed and Carter had become best friends.

The plot has a compelling backstory; both men found a missing part of their lives… they didn’t find it in some far off land; they found it in the treasure-trove of real unsuspicious, in-your-face, say anything, friendship.

Since the movie a small army of bucket Listers have emerged. Although I’m not much of a list maker, or list keeper I have invested some time rethinking and renewing my bucket list. It’s an ongoing adventure in progress.

The following items on my list have been checked off, but each has a backstory.

  • Acquire best SLR digital camera for adventurists (Canon 5D and now the 5D Mark II is on the list)
  • Walk the streets of ancient Ephesus (shared with friends)
  • Investigate the catacombs outside Rome (shared with my wife)
  • Captaining our own sailing tour of the Greek Islands (shared with friends)
  • Explore Switzerland by Glacier Express train (shared with friends)
  • Helping a friend find new adventure in life (shared accomplishment)
  • Driving PCH in a convertible (shared with my wife)
  • Eat the best Fajitas in Dallas/Fort Worth (La Familia)
  • Hosting a radio talk show (shared with great callers)
  • Writing a book that gets published (shared with great editor)
  • Eat the best sushi in Dallas/Fort Worth (Piranha Killer Sushi)
  • Cruising the Inland Passage Alaska (40th anniversary trip
  • Flying solo along the coast in small plane (after weeks with a great instructor)

These items are ongoing.

  • Discover the best pizza in NYC
  • Get involved in an impossible project and make it happen anyway
  • Tell the stories of courageous people who live the way God intended them to live
  • Build friendships with new people every week.
  • Send thank you notes to the people who have made my life richer
  • Look for the good in people and tell them when I see it
  • Surprise someone new every month

These are waiting just around the corner.

  • Write a best-selling book
  • Take a photography safari in Africa
  • Take one of those rare “Right place at the right time” photographs
  • Walk streets of Jerusalem
  • Ride hot air balloon
  • Road Tour on the old Route 66
  • Producing a podcast that inspires people to live with imagination and adventure
  • Try new things as opportunities arise

What’s on your list?

Mt St Helens with fresh eyes

Thirty years after Mount St Helens blew it’s top, National Geographic reports it is an image of slow transformation. Though its not happening over night, new life is returning to the blast area and adventures are awaiting those with eyes to see.

Carl and Cathy Collins, live a short drive from the mountain. As an old biology teacher, Carl has taken hundreds of students on many field trips, but he never tires of the seeing the signs–the signs of new life.

I asked Carl if the trip to St helens was an adventure worth taking yet?

“Oh, yes! Its been 30 years you know? Of course you need me as your guide.”

“When were you there last?”

“In June, Cathy and I took a couple friends to the South side of the mountain where I have spent 20 years watching nature reclaim the land. We visited two favorite trees which were seeded by the wind (or birds) and now they are over thirty feet tall.”

What is it that transforms the tour into an adventure?

“Eyes! Each time we walk the mountain area we take ‘fresh eyes.’ Isn’t that the secret of an adventure? Even ordinary stuff in ordinary places can be an adventure, if you have ‘fresh eyes.’ Then, when you are at St helens, you are set for adventure because this is one extraordinary place.”

Carl & Cathy’s favorite trees

Here you adventure ad-on: Take fresh eyes. Look for new life!

There’s more to life than a good story

Everybody loved Aunt Ruby’s stories; they were filled with surprises, adventure, and more than a little imagination. She and Durwood lived in a broken-down, wood-framed, four room house just north of Harrison, Arkansas.

We would only visit every two years or so, but Ruby and Durwood always made the country visit an unforgettable experience for a city-kid.

This time the front door was missing, but the screen door was there swinging on a single hinge near the bottom. Chickens and turkeys and goats rambled in and out of the house like it was their own.

The clouds had been gathering all afternoon and they finally let loose. We all gathered on the porch, watching the lightning and waiting for the rain to stop. Ruby said, “Did I ever tell you city-kids about the time the tornado attacked us?”

NOOOOOO!

“It was about five years ago on a night like this. That mean ol’ twister come right across that hillside and lifted our house right off the ground. The kids were screamin’ and hollerin’, but the roar of the storm was so loud you could barely hear ‘em. We were all inside, rolling around the floor, trying to find something to hold on to. Finally, Durwood got curious, he wanted to see what was happening, so he crawled over to the door, and when he opened it… that old house just blew apart. Our kids were scattered all over the countryside and it took years to rebuild this old shack. I guess you noticed, we never found the door. So, if you’re out walking through the woods and you see that old door, let me know.”

I didn’t care for the outhouses, or the ticks and chiggers, but I loved the stories. It didn’t matter how true they were. There was something magical about the story times.

I still love the stories, but now I’m in them. You are too. Being adult means you are the story. So, is your’s an adventure, mystery, comedy, tragedy, or one of those reality shows?

Regardless of our intentions, our stories reveal our values, our character, and our passions in life. They out live us, like a permanent record that proves we really lived. Even the legendary stories filled with more fiction than fact are packed with hints of wonder and wisdom.

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